A few more thoughts about sex, guilt, multi-culturalism, and freedom

Sexual liberation is rooted, historically, in interpretations of Freud and developed by Herbert Marcuse. It’s all related to guilt.

Multi-culturalism has used a confusion strategy to assist it. Various cultures have varying sexual mores, the argument goes, therefore there are no sexual laws that are not mere cultural impositions.

The great crisis of multi-culturalism is precisely that there is no such thing as a multi-culture. Throw 50 cultures together and you have a new culture. If the leadership of that culture chooses a radical relativism as the foundation for decision making then the members of that culture will not have wise guides or principles to live by. Everything will be regarded as an imposition and everybody will be confused.

It’s analogous to learning manners. They’re binding at first, liberating later. It’s not comforting to never know what to do in a given situation.

The notion is that all conventions are impositions and limitations. They are not. They are means by which individuals become members of a community. They are means by which individuals rise from the aesthetic to the ethical. They are means by which individuals discover themselves, their powers, their tastes, their identities. And then they turn those identities, discovered in part by breaking from the stranglehold of community (something they could not have done if the community did not have a “stranglehold”!) and turning back into the community and serving it with wisdom, virtue, and self-denial.  

It’s also analogous to learning how to speak. Does it liberate you or bind you? You will always find it difficult to escape the patterns of thought and the limits of thought established by your language. So are you freer to think if you don’t know any language? Are you more liberated if your use of your own language is radically limited? Language is both the opportunity and the limitation of relationship.

But our supposed desire not to impose our morality on people from other cultures or religions or whatever is a fraud and a self-deception. First of all, it is a fraud. Those who champion the sexual revolution are not morally neutral. They have a worldview and a moral system that they have imposed with extraordinary success on our culture, especially through the colleges and universities and the entertainment industry (this may be the single most significant stupid thing Christians did in the 20th century when they regarded the entertainment industry as necessarily evil and let it go its own way rather than make movies that could have been sound aesthetically and morally responsible).

Secondly, it is a self-deception by the cowards who acquiesce. They have persuaded themselves that they are ever so kindly not imposing their own morality (as though they hold to a sound moral code themselves) on the young people under their own authority. Which is to say they are refusing to exercise authority, thereby abandoning their responsibilities. They are closet tyrants a la Dead Poet’s Society.

Do we believe for a moment that the university system would be so unspeakably immoral if it weren’t taken over by and now run by two classes of people: perverts and administrative cowards?

To be free from guilt over things that are wrong is not liberation. The guilt will submerge itself and manifest itself in other psychoses. When we do things that are self-destructive we ought to feel guilt – that is one of the evidences of self-respect.

And what about love? Isn’t that the hymn of the age? Are those free from guilt suggesting that sex without love is a good thing? Because that is the price of sex without guilt. The reason we should feel guilty about extra-marital sex is because somebody isn’t being loved; spouse, future spouse, self, person with whom one is uniting oneself. Thus the only way to avoid guilt is to completely eliminate love from our conscience in relation to the sexual act. Some freedom.

This is leading to a paganism that will enslave women into temple prostitution within two generations.

One Response

  1. i am a 50 yr old man. single, never married, sexually confused and repressed because of Christianity.
    Ive been throught the gamet of sexual experiances never feeling good about myself because of my “Christian” upbringing. I do have a real problem with Christian guilt and damnation, the way ive deen it in life through the christianity i was brought up in Christianity is totaly anti sexual and sex drive is evil. i dont belive that anymore. i belive evil is to not love and respect and honor in all things.
    and to deliberate all things in honor revernce and respect is what the need of a true christian is.
    we all know what isa right aND wrong, and we know what were guilty of in life bur to hold those things against ourselves to not be honest to ourselves and god and give our trust in all things to god is the biggest sin in life i can think of. if there is fear in ghod then christ was wrong in telling us to fear not. if god is good then ther e is ryme and reason to every aspect of life in his understanding ( not mine or yours or any human beings ) but in gods patience kind unfolding and reveling love
    i believe in morals, and love as in god is the basis of those. and marrage isnt a church document its a commitment and love as in sex is the awarness that this is another human beingthat you with. christianity has really screwed up in its lack of understanding and patience and its dictation of moral right and wrong without the love of god for all things
    this is probablly alot of off the wall stuff but this isnt only me its alot of people who cant bringthemselfs to question the authority of their culture
    so take itt for waht it is
    but in the end god is undying love understanding and compasion and the ultimate judge of us all in the context of those
    faith hope and love love is the greatest of these
    god is love

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